The Guide To Hookup Advice, Sex Advice, Relationship Advice, and Swinger Advice

Are you looking for advice to help improve your sex life? Well, you've come to the right place! Here at we are all about providing good advice. It's quite easy to get overwhelmed by sex, hookups, relationships, and swinging. You may want to learn more and not know where to start. We know how that feels and that's why we've created this ultimate guide to answer all of your sexual questions. Yes, even if you think you know it all you'll still find something new to learn here. So whether you are a novice and completely new to the world of swinging, relationships, hookups, and sex or you're a pro, you'll find articles and advice here to help you.


What You’ll Find In This Super Detailed Guide

This guide is separated into four main sections and each section contains ten help articles. So if you do the math, that means there are forty incredible individual help guides here. The four main topics that are covered are: Hookup Advice, Sex Advice, Relationship Advice, and Swinger Advice. You can easily link to each of the forty help guides below and there are descriptions for each one so you know exactly what it is about before you even click on it. How handy!

Now, let's dive a little more into each of the sections in this guide:

Hookup Advice

Maybe you already know a little bit about sex but you're wanting to explore hooking up a little more. Sometimes it can be hard to go from a monogamous mindset to having hookups. But we like to say that once you've had one hookup, there's no turning back. They are just so much fun and a perfect way to explore your sexual boundaries in a new and interesting way. Plus, you can meet a lot more interesting sexual partners this way!

Sex Advice

You are probably thinking that you don't need any sex advice at all but that is a dangerous mindset to have! Even the most seasoned pro still has something to learn, after all. We've put together a great list of questions that both novices and pros will find helpful about sex, and specifically sex and swinging. A lot of the time when we have questions about sex we don't know where to turn, and that can be a lonely feeling. Well, you don't want to worry about that anymore!

Relationship Advice

Ah, relationships. They are hard enough before sex gets involved but then once sex is on the table things can get even more confusing. And when swinging and hookups are involved, it can get even more confusing after that. We want to make sure that you have healthy, full relationships that are also fun and push your sexual boundaries. Relationships definitely don't have to be boring! This guide will show you how you can still have fun sexually and always explore in your relationships.

Swinger Advice

Swinging is often something that many couples want to get into but never know the first steps. Well, lucky for you we have put together a guide with ten of the most asked questions about swinging. You will be so ready to attend your first swingers party after reading through this guide, trust us! A lot of it has to do with confidence and feeling ready, of course. It can be a really big deal mentally to go from having one sexual partner to having multiple sexual partners so we want to make sure you are prepared for that.


How It Will Help

So how exactly will this guide help you? Well, we've outlined the basics already: that it will help you feel more confident and answer your questions about sex, relationships, hookups, and swinging. However, there are five more specific ways that this guide can help you that we think are worth getting into. Especially if you are on the fence about reading this guide!

You'll get down to earth advice that you can trust.

We strive to make our help guides super readable and fun. That way you aren't getting bored by what you are reading. If you are bored there is a chance you won't read to the end and that isn't good! And while they are definitely fun and easy to read, they are still full of advice and information from top professionals in their field. Yes, we consult with sex professionals to make sure that all of the advice that you are getting is totally accurate and trustworthy.

You'll learn new things about yourself and your sexuality.

You may think you already know yourself and what you want sexually. However, after you read this guide you could surprise yourself at what you are suddenly interested in and what to explore. Many of our readers never considered things like threesomes or swinger parties until they read through our help guides and had that spark awakened in them. And a lot of the time it's knowing that their needs and desires are totally okay and normal. Once that wall has been lifted it is so much easier to want to explore.

You'll feel empowered to step out of your comfort zone.

It can be super scary and nerve-wracking to try new things, especially when it comes to sex. A lot of the time what is holing us back is not having the knowledge to confidently step outside of our comfort zones. Or you may not even be aware of what those comfort zones are until you read about them here! In any case, reading through these help guides will answer your questions and clear up the mystery so you can feel like you are making empowered decisions about your sexual life.

You'll feel more confident about yourself and your abilities.

It can be hard to feel confident about sex. A lot of the time we are afraid of doing the wrong thing or feeling judged. That is why these help guides exist so that you can have all your fears of inadequacy and judgement squashed. And once those fears are squashed and you start to feel more confident, then you'll feel like you are able to try new things and really push yourself to new sexual heights.

You'll spice up your relationships.

A lot of couples get into swinging and threesomes and hookups as a way to spice up their relationship and we have to agree that, if done properly, it is a great idea! Sometimes after being with someone for so long that things can get monotonous and you really want to bring some excitement back to your sexual encounters. By following the advice in our help guide you can learn the right way to introduce swinging and hookups to your relationship. You can thank us later!


How To Use This Guide

So now that you know more about what is in this guide, you are maybe wondering the best way to get the most out of it. Many people just want to barrel ahead and dive right in but we always suggest taking a more thoughtful approach. After all, there is a lot of information here and it can be a little overwhelming. By taking your time and making a plan, you can really make the most out of this guide. Below we outline four more ways to use this guide that will help you get the very most out of it.

Read Everything Over Very Carefully First

It may be so tempting to dive right in and start reading the first article that catches your eye. We are even guilty of doing that sometimes too! However, we strongly recommend reading over everything in this index first. That way you will have a chance to read a short blurb and the title of every single help guide—yes, all forty of them! By reading the blurb for each one, you'll get a really good idea of what this guide offers and be very familiar with the different questions that it answers.

Pick A Category To Focus On

Once you've read over all of the blurbs and titles, you'll likely have a good idea of what category or guide you want to focus on. This is another benefit of taking the time to read everything over! When you know what category you want to focus on, you won't have to waste any time starting on sections or guides only to realize that it wasn't exactly what you were looking for at the time.

Don't Get Too Overwhelmed And Take Your Time

There are a lot of help guides here, it's true. Forty individual guides spread over four categories is a lot an can definitely be overwhelming. The best way to deal with this is to take your time. There is no rush and these guides aren't going anywhere so you may as well take your time reading them! Another thing that can help is to just focus on each individual guide that you are reading instead of thinking about how many there are in total.

Bookmark And Save For Later

It can be tempting, but definitely don't try to read everything at once! You'll totally overload your brain that way and risk not actually absorbing any of this great information. You aren't trying to speed read or memorize here, you are trying to understand and expand your sexual knowledge! Bookmark guides to read for later or save entire sections for times when you know you will need them. After all, you may not be interested in swinging right now but down the road you could be.

Hookup Advice From

The ten help guides below cover everything you've ever wanted to know about hookups. We start with the basics, like Are You Ready For A Swinger Hookup? and Why You Should Consider Swinging and also dive into more specific hookup questions like How To Have A Guilt Free Swinger Hookup and An I gay If I Had A Bisexual Orgy?. Seriously, everything you've ever wanted to know about hookups you'll find answers below.

Am I Gay If I Had A Bisexual Orgy?
You have engaged and enjoyed a bisexual orgy and are wondering if you are gay if you had a bisexual orgy. That is a very normal thing to ask yourself. Having a bisexual orgy does not mean you are gay. Does it really matter if you have bisexual thoughts? You... Read more.

Are You Ready For A Swinger Hookup?
Are you looking for something new in your sex life? Maybe it is time for you to think about joining the swinger life. You have done your research and have weighed all the pros and cons. Are you ready for a swinger hookup? If you are, then we have some… Read more.

The Best Ways To Enjoy A Pansexual Swingers Hookup
Coming to terms with your sexuality and how you really feel can help you figure out how to enjoy a pansexual swingers hookup. Do you even know if you are a pansexual? One way to find out is to keep reading and see if pansexuality is something that will appeal… Read more.

How To Have A Guilt-Free Swinger Hookup
There are many ways to have and enjoy and guilt-free swinger hookup. The only reason you may wonder about a guilt-free relationship is that you have not discussed it yet with your partner or you have, but feel like your partner is a bit reluctant. Swinging does not have to… Read more.

Find Out How To Have A Public Hookup With Swingers
Do you ever wonder what it would be like to be part of the mile high club? How about a hookup with swingers in a public area on the beach? When you are looking to have a public hookup with swingers, you can either make a plan ahead of time… Read more.

Should I host A Private Swinger Party At An Airbnb?
Have you ever wanted to host your own swinger party, but are not quite sure of where or when to do it? Why not check out an Airbnb rental and give it a try? If you are going to plan a swinger party at an Airbnb, you really have to … Read more.

What Is "Dogging?"
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to experience the thrill and excitement of having swinger sex in semi-public places? In this article, we dive head first into the world of swingers having sex in exciting places where getting caught makes it even more daring! Dogging is a… Read more.

When Is The Perfect Time To Swing?
Is there ever a perfect time to swing? There is always the right time to get out there and have a sex filled, amazing swinger date. If you and your partner already have a swinger relationship with another couple, you can synchronize your schedules to make sure that you all… Read more.

Where Are The Best Places For Swingers To Hook Up?
There are many ways to find swingers and to enjoy the swinging experience. When you want to find the best places, there are many ways to do so. You should have a conversation with your partner and see where you both will feel the most comfortable to enjoy a swingers … Read more.

Why You Should Consider Swinging
If you are currently bored in your relationship and you and your partner both agree that your sex life needs a boost, you should consider swinging. Many couples try swinging when they want to put some life back into their sexual relationship. Sometimes things go stale and people want more … Read more.

Sex Advice From

At some point or another we all need sex advice. There is no point in pretending otherwise! This section is dedicated to answering questions about sex and swinging, from the basics like How To Start Swinging As A Couple and What Are The Pros & Cons To Having A Swinger Relationship to way more deep queries like Can A Marriage Withstand Group Sex? and Can Swingers Have A Happy Marriage?. We know that after reading through these help guides you'll feel way more empowered about sex and swinging in your relationships.

Can A Marriage Withstand Group Sex?
Swingers are proof that married couples can still enjoy sex. They're single-handedly destroying the stereotype that married couples either don't have sex or have boring sex. Swingers are enjoying tons of kinks and fetishes and are comfortable with having sex in public or in large groups. In fact, swinging started… Read more.

Can A Swinging Relationship Really Be Healthy For You?
There has been a lot of research about the health benefits of being sexually active. Although there hasn't been as many about swinging relationships, we can figure out a few things with this research. First, having a lot of sex is actually helps keeps you both mentally and physically healthy… Read more.

Can Swingers Have A Happy Marriage?
Most swingers are happily married. They chose to get started adult swinging because they wanted to try something new, or wanted to explore their sexuality or just were curious about everything that life offers. It doesn't mean that they don't love their partner. Monogamy doesn't work for everyone and trying… Read more.

How Do I Get My Spouse Into Swinging?
Getting your spouse into swinging depends on knowing them and what works best. Some spouses need to be given proof or statistics while other people want a more emotional connection. Not everything is going to work the same way because every partner and relationship is different and needs different things. … Read more.

How To Decide Swinging Rules In A Relationship
When you start swinging, it's important to know how it's going to affect your relationship. This is especially important if you're new the scene. There are a lot of emotional and physical feelings that can come when you start swinging and to help you deal with them, a conversation about … Read more.

How To Manage Jealousy While Swinging In A Relationship
Jealousy can happen in every relationship. It doesn't matter how long that you've been together or how good your relationship is, or even if you're swingers. Everyone can get jealous. There are many different causes of jealousy but it can get very exasperated when a couple is swinging. Part of… Read more.

How To Start Swinging As A Couple
Swinging is a very fun thing for couples to do. It can show how strong that you and your partner's relationship is. Swingers can be any age and from any income, although you'll usually find couples between 25-60 years old that are participating at swingers clubs, parties and events. Most … Read more.

Is My Partner Falling For Our Threesome Partner?
Finding out your partner is interested in someone else is not an easy thing to experience. Nobody wants to think about the person that they love falling in love with someone else especially if they're still together. Swingers and couples who are non-monogamous can experience this too. This doesn't happen… Read more.

What Are The Pros & Cons To Having A Swinger Relationship
Couples get involved in swinging for a variety of reasons. They could be interested in spicing up their sex lives, curious about the community of swinging, exploring their sexuality or looking for a fun activity to do with their partner. There are more pros than cons when it comes to… Read more.

What is "Semi-Swinging?"
The world of swinging can be a bit confusing. The regular type of swinging is between two couples who are looking to swap partners. It was very popular between married couples but it's now available to any couple who's interested in enjoying group sex or has an open relationship. Despite… Read more.

Relationship Advice From

Yes, even a swinging website can still offer relationship advice! And we like to think that we cover a lot of great topics in this section of the help guide. You'll find everything from the basics, like How To Have Group Sex 101 and How To Survive Your First Sex Party to queries for those who are less new to these sorts of sexual encounters, like What If You Can't Perform During Group Sex? and What Is A "Sex Unicorn?".

How To Have Great Group Sex
So you know all about group sex and perhaps you've even had a few group sex encounters but now you are ready to take it to the next level. You want to not just have group sex but have great group sex Yes! We fully support this, as it's always … Read more.

How To Have Group Sex 101
Having sex with one partner is great, but what about more than one? That is what we are here to talk about today: group sex! We here at are all about group sex, whether it's swinging sex parties or an intimate threesome. If you have never experienced group sex… Read more.

How To Have Safe Group Sex
Safe sex is one thing, but what about safe group sex? Is it even possible to have safe sex when multiple sexual partners are involved? Today we are going to be answering this question once and for all! After going over the basics of group sex, we'll then examine how … Read more.

How To Survive Your First Sex Party
Are you feeling ready to experience your very first sex party? Perhaps you are nervous. That is totally normal! We are here to tell you that everyone experiences nerves before their first sex party. To feel more confident, we have put together this guide with all of the essential tips… Read more.

Is Group Sex Right For You?
Listen, we've all be interested in group sex. It's quite alluring to imagine having a sexual encounter with more than one person at a time. However, we are often left wondering: is group sex right for us? It's a good question to ask because, let's be honest, group sex definitely… Read more.

What Are The Benefits Of Having Group Sex?
So perhaps you've been thinking to yourself that you are interested in exploring group sex. But before you do, you are wondering what the benefits are, if any. Well, you'll be happy to know that there are in fact a lot of benefits to having group sex! Like many sexual… Read more.

What If You Can't Perform During Group Sex?
We all fantasize about group sex, but the one thing we tend to not think about is what if we can't perform during group sex. We don't think of this because obviously we want to stick to positive thinking! But let's be real: this is a real issue that is … Read more.

What Is A "Sex Unicorn?"
You are probably familiar with the idea of a threesome but do you know what a Sex Unicorn is? It's a term that has been gaining in popularity over recent years but it is still kind of niche. We wouldn't be surprised if you had never heard the term before… Read more.

What Is The Proper Orgy Etiquette?
An orgy may just seem like a sexual free for all but there is actually quite a lot going on beneath the surface! At first glance it may seem like people just get together and start going at it but that couldn't be further from the truth. A good orgy… Read more.

What You Should Know Before Having A Threesome
Let's be honest: nearly every body fantasizes about having a threesome. There is just something super exciting and exhilarating about a threesome. But going from the fantasy stage to actually having one is a pretty big step. It's quite alright if it stays a fantasy forever, but if you are … Read more.

Swinger Advice From

If you're on, likely you're especially looking for swinger advice and tips. Well, this section of the help guide is especially devoted to that! While all of the above sections do touch on different aspects of swinging, you'll find even more specific questions here, ranging from the very basics, like How To Get Started In Swinging and How Do You Find Swingers Online? to more fun questions like How To Have A Swinger Vacation.

How Do You Successfully Approach A Swinger Couple?
There are specific ways to approach a swinger couple, if you want to have a successful experience. Of course, the basic thing to do firs is to introduce yourself to each other. This will help you to break the ice. Next, you would have open communication, finding out what each… Read more.

How Do You Find Swingers Online?
The Internet and the swinging lifestyle go hand in hand. In fact, it makes it easier for people to meet without having to leave home. There is thousands of websites popping up each day that cater to the swinging lifestyle. This makes it easier for you to find people who… Read more.

How To Get Invited To A Swinger Party
You can get into a swinger's party by being the host where the event is kept in your home. For this reason, you wouldn't necessarily need an invitation. You would invite yourself. However, all joke and fun aside, if you wanted to get an invitation to a swinger party, you … Read more.

How To Get Started In Swinging
Why would you want to get started in a swinging lifestyle? Well, to answer that question, you have to figure out your own personal reasons. The real reason to get started in swinging should be to try a new sexual experience and to improve your sex life. It could be… Read more.

How To Have A Swinger Vacation
All vacations come in two forms; either sea-based or land-based. And, you don't have to be a certain age to enjoy a swinger vacation. All you need is an open mind and an innate desire to free yourself and have a lot of sex while you are on your vacation… Read more.

How To Satisfy Your Curiosity As A Novice Swinger
If you are curious about the swinging lifestyle, you should first talk to each other about it as a couple. If one person in the relationship is curious about it, then it might be possible to convince the other to try it. However, you should be clear on your expectations… Read more.

What Are Some Tips I Should Know As A First-Time Swinger?
As a first-time swinger, there are some things that you should know. If you are new to the swinging community, then you have to make a few adjustments to your life. You also have to make some concessions between you and your partner. If you want to add some spice… Read more.

What Are The Rules To Swinging?
There are ground rules and then there are club rules as it pertains to the swinger's lifestyle. You can set your own boundaries with your partner and the other involved person or persons. However, the swinger's club or party will have its own rules, which may include a dress code… Read more.

What Is A Swinger?
A swinger is someone who indulges in polyamorous hookups with their main partner and others; whether in a group setting or threesome. Couples are the ones that usually indulge in this lifestyle as swingers and they do it for more than one reasons, but mostly to spice up their sex… Read more.

What You Should Know Before Going To A Swingers Club?
Before you go to a swinger's club, you should know the rules first. Go on the website to familiarize yourself so that you follow the rules. Find out if there is a desk where you have to check in or if there is a fee associated with each experience or… Read more.

Get The Most Out Of Your Sex life With Hookup, Sex, Swinging, and Relationship Advice From!

And there you have it! Whether you're totally new to swinging or have been around the block, we know that this guide of forty questions will definitely set you on your way to living your very best sexual life.

The Guide To Hookup Advice, Sex Advice, Relationship Advice, and Swinger Advice

Do you have questions about sex, relationships, hookups, and swinging? Well, look no further! answers all your queries in this help guide. Guide To Hookup Sex and Relationships